My Unique Journey
With over two decades of experience as a Dating Coach and Matchmaker, I specialize in guiding singles over 40 who are re-entering the dating world after a long-term relationship. Whether you’re navigating dating with children, blending families, or overcoming dating anxiety, I provide personalized support to help you find a meaningful and lasting connection.
I work with clients all across the country, helping them break free from unhealthy dating patterns—especially the cycle of attracting emotionally unavailable partners. I know firsthand how overwhelming dating can feel, particularly if you’re introverted, out of practice, or carrying the weight of past disappointments. But I also know the joy of finding someone who truly sees you—and that’s what drives me.
My approach goes beyond advice; I offer empathy, strategy, and proven techniques to help you regain confidence and open your heart again. With my expert guidance, you won’t have to leave your love life to chance. Let’s work together to find the fulfilling, healthy relationship you deserve.
Certified Expertise
To ensure I provide the best guidance, I became certified in Dating, Relationships, Matchmaking, and Life Coaching, along with additional certifications in Goal-Setting Life Coaching, EFT/TFT Tapping Master Practitioner, and NLP Practitioner. My training equips me to offer comprehensive support, focusing on finding the right match and building and nurturing great relationships.
My Mission
At Love And Dating, my mission is to work closely with each client to develop a customized strategy that enhances their dating life and empowers their personal development. I focus on building confidence, enjoying new connections, managing expectations, and setting the stage for a successful and enjoyable dating process.
My Approach
My approach as a dating and relationship coach is goal-oriented and mentoring. I emphasize your strengths, helping you clearly define your relationship goals and understand the "why" behind them. By providing a non-judgmental, safe space for communication, I will identify what your ideal healthy relationship looks like and work toward achieving it.
Take the First Step
For nearly 20 years, I have dedicated my career to helping singles break free from the cycle of dating emotionally unavailable partners. With my expert guidance, you can find the fulfilling, healthy relationship you deserve. Your love life doesn’t have to be a game of chance—connect with me, and let me be your ultimate dating coach.
The Success Stories
"The work I've been doing with Debra has been a game changer. I have been single for 8 years, actively dating, but rarely would I go out on a 2nd or 3rd date. I pretty much gave up on the idea of having a life partner. Working with Debra has been an eye opener. She has helped me identify destructive patterns I fall back on in moments of fear of rejections. I've been dating the same woman for 4 months now and I'm very optimistic. I'm so thankful to be working with Debra, I only wish I would have started earlier. I highly recommend her to singles in all stages of dating. "
~ Jason 50, Atlanta, GA
"I can't thank Debra enough for the incredible transformation I've experienced in my dating life. Her guidance and support have helped me break through my limiting beliefs and overcome challenges I never thought were possible. Debra's personalized approach to coaching has helped me set clear goals and healthy boundaries. With her help, I've finally met the woman I want to share my life with. I highly recommend working with Debra if you're looking to unlock your full potential and live a fulfilling life."
~ Tom 58, Portland, OR
" Starting to date after being in a long marriage was overwhelming. I had no idea what to do as far as meeting new people, dating techniques, advice on first dates, and not feeling uncomfortable or awkward. After working with Debra within three weeks everything shifted, I started to feel confident, it became fun and I'm enjoying getting out there. Dating is hard but with guidance and support it became an exciting journey and one that I will never regret. I am dating great guys, having fun and will hopefully find love again."
~ Jennifer 48, Chicago, IL
"With Debra's guidance and coaching I have seen a dramatic difference in both the process, and the quality of women I’ve been meeting. I know we’re in the early stages but feeling very confident that her expertise will result in the committed relationship I’m looking for. "
~ Bill 51, Darien, CT
"Debra has completely changed my approach to dating, for the first time I'm enjoying dating. My confidence is up, my energy has shifted, I'm meeting amazing women and I couldn't have done it without you. Debra you're the best! "
~ Mark 50, New York
 "My experience working with Debra was invaluable. My confidence had been shattered, I was lost and knew what I was doing wasn't working. Having a loving relationship with a quality man seemed out of reach and like a dream others got to experience. From day one Debra's coaching was amazing. She made me feel safe and understood. She was able to help me uncover why I was attracting the type of men who were not aligned with my goals or wanted the same type of relationship I wanted. Debra guided me along into a meaningful relationship. There was some tough love, but her dedication and professionalism let me know that my goals were important and now I am MARRIED to the man of my dreams. "